In the regular hustle and bustle of our lives, we easily get caught up in the whirlwind of our emotions. Sometimes they hit us like a tidal wave, leaving us feeling overwhelmed and out of control.
But what if I told you that these emotions are actually our allies, our guides through the intricate labyrinth of our inner world?
Think about it for a moment…
When we are angry, guilty, or afraid, it is like our internal alarm system is going off, trying to tell us something important.
It is like nature’s way of saying, “Hey, pay attention! Something is not quite right here.”
But here is the kicker:
Most of us don’t really know how to listen to these subtle messages.
We either suppress them, hoping they’ll go away on their own, or we let them run wild, wreaking havoc on our lives and relationships.
But, how do we decode these emotional messages and harness their power for good?
It starts with a simple yet profound exercise: expanding our hawareness.
Take a moment right now to pause and tune in to the sounds around you…
Now Really listen…
Notice the loud ones that demand your attention and the soft ones that often go unnoticed.
Allow your awareness to expand beyond the obvious, seeking out every subtle sound that graces your ears.
In those moments of heightened awareness, you will begin to realize something remarkable, that your brain is a focus freak.
It is constantly seeking out patterns, trying to make sense of the world around you. And when you give it the space to do so, you open the door to a whole new level of understanding and insight.
Now, imagine applying this same level of awareness to your emotions!
Instead of running away from them or letting them run the show, you embrace them with open arms, inviting them to speak their truth.
You listen, not with judgment or fear, but with curiosity and compassion.
While doing so, you will discover that beneath the surface of anger lies a deep well of hurt or injustice.
The veil of guilt hides a powerful lesson about your values and boundaries.
And within the shadow of fear resides an untapped reservoir of courage and resilience.
So, the next time you find yourself caught in the grip of anger, guilt, or fear, remember your emotions are not your enemy, but your greatest teachers.
Embrace them, listen to them, and let them guide you on the journey toward greater self-awareness and empowerment.
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In a world of constant distraction, finding moments of peace and clarity can feel like a luxury.
Yet, amidst the chaos, there lies profound wisdom in simplifying our lives and embracing a lighter way of being.
Beinglight does not merely relate to physical weight;
it is about lightening the burden on our minds and spirits…
allowing us to move through life with greater ease and grace.
It is about carrying only what is necessary and leaving space for more, whenever life calls upon us to adapt or grow.
So, what does it truly mean to be light?
Being light means having the capacity to be fully present
to ourselves,
to others, and
to the world around us.
It is about being available, listening deeply, and valuing each moment as it unfolds.
When we are not weighed down by unnecessary worries or distractions, we can assimilate new information, respond with clarity, and execute decisions with confidence.
But why should we strive for this lightness?
Because in the simplicity of being light, we find freedom.
Freedom from:
The incessant chatter of our minds,
The need to constantly strive for more, and the freedom to embrace the fullness of life as it is.
How then do we cultivate this lightness in our lives?
A. It starts with beingpresent, anchoring ourselves in the here and now, rather than getting lost in thoughts of the past or future. This way we can experience life more fully and engage with each moment with greater clarity and intention.
B. Being nonjudgmental is another key aspect of being light.
It is about accepting ourselves and others exactly as we are,
without getting caught up in criticism, comparison and negative competition.
When we release the need to judge, we create space for compassion, understanding, and connection to flourish. Additionally, we sense a huge burden get off our backs, and we instantly begin to relax!
C. Selfawareness is also essential for cultivating lightness.
Knowing ourselves, our strengths, weaknesses, and deepest desires, and being willing to explore the depths of our being. When we are self-aware, we can navigate through life’s challenges with greater hashtag#resilience and grace.
D. Regular moments of pause and reflection are important for maintaining lightness in our lives. Whether through meditation, journaling, or simply taking a walk in nature, these moments allow us to recharge, reset, and realign ourselves with what truly matters.
So, are you ready to lighten your load?
In doing so, you shall discover that true freedom lies not in having more, but in…
being more;
more present,
more open, and
unburdened by the weight of unnecessary baggage.
Ever caught yourself trapped in the ‘tyranny of the urgent’ – running from pillar to post, day in and out, completely exhausting yourself?
“I am very busy today’, which runs into weeks and then months, and before you know it, the year has passed…
‘I have to do everything by myself,’ we hear them complain.
‘I don’t have anyone capable of supporting me,’ ‘time flies very fast,’ and worse, ‘I could not give time to those who wanted it the most.’
With due respect, to me, this is a sign of a lazy intellect that does not take quiet time out to reflect on their top priorities, i.e., developing themselves holistically, forging strong relationships & developing others through mentoring and coaching.
Don’t get me wrong, these people might be doing phenomenally well in their work/business; alas, they burn themselves out, not realizing that balance is not something we find but something we create.
One lesson that leaders can extract from this is that they are instrumental in developing more leaders and not followers.
Additionally, they are not simply trying to clone and create leaders ‘like themselves,’ but are genuinely supporting their people to understand, believe, and develop their uniqueness and mastery.
A truly transformational leader is someone who supports the transformation of their people from ordinary and mediocre to extraordinary and excellent. Their intellect is engaged in discovery, development, and delegation.
It is indeed easy to get caught up in the whirlwind of busyness.
We often wear our packed schedules like badges of honour, equating productivity with worth.
But in reality, being constantly busy can be a form of laziness, a refusal to prioritize, hdelegate, or take a step back to assess what truly matters.
In the fast-paced world, it is crucial to recognize that true productivity is not about how much we can cram into a day, but rather about how effectively we can achieve our goals while maintaining our well-being and nurturing meaningful connections with others.
So, next time you find yourself overwhelmed with hbusyness, take a moment to pause and reflect.
Are you truly being productive, or are you just busy for the sake of being busy?
Remember, balance is key, and true leadership lies not in busyness, but in the thoughtful cultivation of oneself and others.
By the way, I am not very good at remembering people’s names and I think we have all had those moments where we blank out on someone’s name. It’s like our brain decides to take a coffee break just when we need it the most.
And of course, Murphy‘s Law kicks in, and they not only remember our name but say it with a big smile on their face.
While this is embarrassing, as a consolation, I simply resign to the original thought that I am not good with remembering names, period. I thus dig myself into a helpless, reactive and harmful state. I now am back to square one, with no improvement.
It is not about remembering names but how we navigate ourselves when confronted with our weaknesses, to ensure a positive trajectory. After all, weakness of attitude becomes weakness of character.
Imagine if we flipped that inner dialogue…
Instead of berating ourselves for our forgetfulness,
what if we celebrated the opportunity to learn something new about someone?
What if we saw it as a chance to connect at a deeper level by asking about the story behind their name?
All of this is possible only when I change my inner voice from “I am so bad at remembering people’s names” to “I love to remember people’s names as I can see how important it is for them”
It is all about that shift in perspective.
Instead of focusing on what we are not good at, let us focus on what we can become good at… with a little effort and a lot of positivity.
Whether it is mastering a new skill, overcoming a fear, or simply remembering someone’s name, it all starts with changing the narrative we tell ourselves.
So the next time you find yourself saying, “I’m not good at…” pause for a moment, take a deep breath to reconsider and restate it into something positive.
You will be surprised at the difference it makes not just in your abilities but in how you see yourself.



Honored to take a session on Wellness & Resilience for one of the largest realestate companies in UAE recently!
This team now has a high level of awareness and urgency on the subject and is well equipped with practical tips and techniques to look after their own physical, mental, emotional, and social well-being; additionally, they returned with amazing insights to develop their resilience. An experiential session, power packed with Yogasanas, Pranayama, Mindfulness, Meditation and Active Games.
Each one walked away with a concrete DNA (Daily Needed Action) commitment; because they know that if they did prioritise their own wellbeing, no one else would!
Organizations worldwide, consciously or unconsciously, use the ‘FishPhilosophy’ to improve teamwork, customerservice, employee engagement, leadership and retention.
The practice of ‘PLAY’ (one of the four themes) increases enthusiasm and reduces stress. It is easier to achieve serious goals if you have fun doing it.
Sharing moments of enjoyment with coworkers builds camaraderie and trust.
A playful approach encourages customer service that is genuine and friendly.
qatarairways is a brilliant example of taking something as mundane as a ‘pre-flight safety briefing’ and making it ‘brilliant’.
You are transported from Doha’s Education City to the water villas and white sands of Maldives. From here they demonstrate the exits of the flight
and the place where your safety card is stored.
For the next demo, you are taken from Lusail Stadium to Rodeo Drive in Beverly Hills showing how to wear your safety jacket. It is fun,
fascinating, and educational and ensures that the regulations are met with style.
Shouldn’t you begin considering how to include ‘play’ in your personal and professional life?
With an open and exploratory mind, you can make your journey magnificent while achieving amazing results!
It is normal to get stressed about repetitive actions that barely seem to add value. It is imperative to make efforts to change the situation in whatever way possible, in case that is not happening, then resort to ‘unconditional acceptance’.
Unconditional Acceptance emerges from a space of love and power and can completely melt the stress away.
Let me give you an example. You drive every day to work during peak hours, and what usually would take you 10 minutes, now takes you 2 hours.
You have left no stone unturned to change your situation but simply must continue. What do you??
Ask yourself the 5 whys –
Why am I doing what I am doing?
By the time you reach your last why, you will see that you are doing it for the love of someone or something. You will see a higher purpose or value guiding this action, such as love for your family, the kind of work you do, a neighborhood that cultivates excellence and so on. Once you see it, you will realize a deeper meaning for yourself and choose to be cool and composed!
There are two types of people in the world.
Those who take complete responsibility for everything that happens to them and those who take responsibility only for the goodstuff.
Who is really responsible when you are glad, sad, bad or mad?
Neuroscience, NLP and our own experiences teach us that ‘I am fully responsible for my own thoughts, feelings and actions’, i.e. these are the only things that I have full control over. Consequentially, I am responsible for what I am going through and also for everything that happens to me.
But why must I understand this? Not because I want to go on a guilt trip but because taking complete responsibility for your emotions and feelings is the first and only way to begin managing them.
If you point fingers at others for the way you feel, you will create a greater sense of helplessness and will never be able to manage your mental state.
A fearful Shifu approaches his master in KungfuPanda, saying he has ‘bad news’.
His master responds with deep wisdom, ‘Shifu, there is only news, there is no good or bad news’!
Events are powerless and lifeless, it is the way we interpret them that gives them life. Good and Bad are ‘perceptions’ that we create!
The moment we divorce judging events and happenings as good or bad, we free ourselves from biases, stereotypes and limitations and enter the realm
of pure ‘possibilities’!
ShowerofPower: Contemplate this thought as you begin your day –
“I understand that change is the only certain thing, and I will approach it with complete acceptance today.
I may not understand the reason behind the change immediately, but I know that, sooner or later, the light will shine and I will understand the reason for the happening.
I will choose to suspend judging events and give the benefit of the doubt to ‘time’.
In other words, I choose to be wise today’!
Age-old wisdom tells us that attachment is the root of all miseries. Additionally, when we are attached to something, our perception gets affected and clarity gets lost.
Not a very useful thing to carry at work.
As an experiment, investigate and surprise yourself with the things that you are attached to. The usual suspects may range from your name, title, company, possessions, ideas, reputation and the list goes on. In fact, the list usually increases as the days go by.
In a recent workshop, a team constructed the tallest tower using paper. One of the participants got offended when we cleared and binned the tower towards the end of the workshop. It took them 20 minutes to build, using paper, she had her selfie taken, and now it was time to say goodbye, but she simply did not feel okay that it was binned.
Imagine how easy it can be to get attached to things that ‘I’ create, which happens so very often.
One big attachment is ‘I am right’, and ‘You are wrong’. Am sure that by now you would have realized that attachment is definitely different from love because there is no room for ‘I’ in true love.
When the pain of attachment gets too much, what people do is they withdraw and step away, abandoning the thing that triggers this pain, believing that they are detaching from it……however, doing so is not detaching but abandoning that thing or person.
The rightstrategy must be to stay connected and close enough to influence and #, but far enough to retain perspective and clarity. That is true detachment.
Absolve the stronghold of “I” and you absolve attachment!